are they true?

i just finished watching a cinderella story AGAIN.
haha.
the whole i was watching the movie,
i just kept wondering, are happy endings for real?

or are they just for hollywood?
do happy endings really happen in real life? maybe the ppl around me?
i mean, all these "and they lived happily ever after" things seem abit ironic, doesnt it?

watch all these movies, and its guy meets girl, they fall in love, get married and its
that cliched phrase - and they lived happily after again.
nothing goes wrong in those relationships.
if there's a row then its all im sorry, pls forgive me, huggy huggy make up and thats it.

are all these true? has anyone ever gone true it before?
hah. of course, just look around us and see all those happy married couples.
yes those were the days when cheating was a 8-letter-word, and everyone was loyal to everyone.

times has change, trend has change, ppl have changed, everything has changed.
do happy endings still exist in now, in our teenage lifes.
everyday, its busy busy, tuition, study, and the usual business.
no time for courtship anymore is there?

alot of adults (the older generation) would say that high school age is not a apropriate time for courtship, but maybe they have forgotten their own youth? alot of adults want their children to at least graduate from college before even having feelings for anyone, all they keep saying is that it'll affect our studies and social life.

studies.
is that what they all care about these days? A's?
no, thats not everything.

sometimes when a teenager starts a relationship with someone at a younger age maybe 14,15. they really need their parents support, they cant go through it all alone, they need advice and coaching. i mean, thats what parents are for right? to support their children? but instead they end up giving their children an earful.

its natural for a child who has reach puberty to develop greater interest in the opposite sex, we study it in science for goodness sake! and the media for the past YEARS has been broadcasting all these kinds of boyfriend girlfriend movies, tv series, and all that stuff with nice, and they lived happily ever after stuff. even cinderella and all those fairytales have these falling in love stuff. and young kids watched cinderella you know!

so you cant really blame teenagers for wanting to have a boyfriend. cant blame them for wanting to find a pre-happy ending? maybe not a happy ending but happiness and relaxation at least. even though relationship does come with pain. thats why parents need to be there for their courting teenagers, be their shoulder for them to cry on when they need it!

after a lond day at school and tuition classes and all those crap, teenagers will tend to turn to friends for some chat to just release some stress. and sometimes those (or THAT) friend will turn out to be someone of the opposite sex, done worry! it doesnt matter. its all natural and what it should be.

ever wondered why most teens dont turn to their parents when their stressed or tensed? well its because parents tend to nag. i know alotta parents will say they dont, but its in their nature, so its nothing wrong! :p

a healthy young relationship, like maybe during high school age, will not do any harm to a teenager. in fact it'll help that teenager grow as a teenager, make him/her prepared for what they must face in future relationships. it'll teach them what they need to know, but its experience is only less than half of it, god and parents' support make up the remaining.

so all i wanna say is, parents, if you find out that your high school teenager is having a relationship, DONT murder them and throw their body into a 9x6 cell, support them, give them advice, constantly ask them hows things going as a mean of support.

and teenagers (everyone like me!) dont let one person affect your whole lifestyle, dont let one relationship that did not go so well, make you give up on all these things. coz love is healthy, love is good. you NEED it! i understand if you're the type that prefers to concentrate on your life other than your love life first, then its ok, but if you realise that you're slowly starting to like someone, which means you start thinking of that someone more oftenly and stuff like that, then dont run away from those feelings, let it develop! its healthy, and it makes you grow :) though i understand that some ppl would rather ignore those feelings and let friendships continue being friendships.

everyone in this world is different. we all have different ways of doing things, different ways of facing and solving problems, someof us run, some of us face it.
well, running away from a broken heart or a badly hurt heart doesnt make it any better, it wont solve problems. running away could mean that you avoid thinking of that problem, you try sleeping and reading and watching tv alot to keep your mind away from the problem, but thats not it.

instead, go to someone, someone you can trust, talk it out. share your heart with someone, it WILL make you feel better. and as they always say, two heads are better than one, so whatever your problem may be, you might even be able to find a solution to it TOGETHER with your friend.

i know more than half of my post is irrelevant to the topic i started out with which was HAPPY ENDINGS. but i just htought of all these things to say. so i did. RANDOM, get it?
lol.

anyways, a healthy lifestyle is part of what HAPPY ENDINGS are ! :)


lights out,
miss random

(ps. this is my 100th post) haha and its 5:16 am.
lol